(This is the second post from a January 2018 sermon series at Cheatham Memorial UMC, Click here for more information)
“Enjoy the Lord, and he will give what your heart asks. Commit your way to the Lord! Trust him! He will act and will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, your justice like high noon.” Psalm 37:4
I am in the first few hours of the morning of New Year’s Day 2018 and will choose my first words, first foods, first TV images, first posts and first influences of this year. These choices at the start will define the results at the finish. I choose Success and I know that God will be central to that living success. I don’t have this figured out, so we can do that together. Comments are welcome.
My first step to success, or better seeing daily success, is to define what it is. This exploration of personal success began at a retirement retreat hosted by our denomination and redirects my attitude. I was very anxious about providing for my wife in retirement and the planning set my mind at ease. The plan includes financial, tax and health care BUT also adds physical wellness, mental health and spiritual preparation. What failure it would be to gain a huge retirement and forfeit my soul to get it. Ultimately it must lead to more than that to be called a map to success.
The First STEP: START. Success is lived in the present moment-not in a vague goal in the life future. Working toward goals is necessary for healthy living. However, the goals themselves are not success but the life that is guided by them. We need that step by step SMART* plan. That plan must reflect a God sized definition of success or we plan to fail. How is my life a success and how can God use my first step to guide me to a deeper sense of success? Here is my start.
Seek God: There no wholeness without the Creator’s vision, focus, and eternal connection. Searching the scriptures, listening in prayer, engaging worship, and learning in small groups are powerful tools to understanding and achieving true success. Psalm 37 will be my meditation scripture for the year.
Seek counsel: “Plans fail for lack of counsel but with many advisers they succeed.” Proverbs 15:22. There are only a few people that I trust enough to converse with this. SO, I have included the blog and social media crowd to weigh in. The results. have been interesting. I have a coach who helps with vocational things and a trusted friend with the personal.
Success is not one thing: Think Broader than money. The social media responses so far center on Finances, Work/Vocation, freedom, influence/power, friendships, good health, and “happiness” . Spiritual matters have not been mentioned frequently by others so I will add them. Simply achieving anyone of these is not success.
Choose your areas of success: Start with your relationship with God. Seek and you will find your way. Choose five areas of success, I chose God, maintaining relationships, finances, Church (Work) goals, Educational goals. Inventory where you are and look to where you should be. Let faith define what is realistic. Think about the end and not the rocky first steps. JUMP!
Write it down and look at the plan often: Mine is taped to the lid of my iPad. You could put in on your computer start up or tape it to your bathroom mirror but if you don’t look at the plan you lose its vision. By the way…things change. Plan for course corrections without compromising on the big picture.
A warning. Not everyone should be allowed in this part of your life. You will need people that love you enough to critique but you DON’T need people that will selfishly drag you down or talk you out of your success. Find that one companion and visit regularly. START YOUR SEARCH AT CHURCH!
More to come
*Specific, Measurable, Actionable, Relevant, and Timely. Check out YouTube “SMART Goals, Quick Overview.”